30 Lessons I’ve Learned in my 20s
Today Mastering Peace Blog officially turns 1! I released this blog last year on my birthday to promote hope, healing, and inspiration. I’ve seen so many positive stories and feedback received from this blog, I can’t wait to see what happens in the next year. Thank you so much for rocking with me over this past year. Since I am also celebrating my birthday, I decided to write down 30 lessons that I've learned.
Nothing is really ever as it seems at surface level. People or situations will eventually reveal the true nature for better or for worse with time.
Don't jump to conclusions and let things play out. If it seems bad initially, trust that it will work itself out.
Being aligned with is way better than being attached to an outcome. When things don't go your way you will be upset, versus being able to trust that you are right where you need to be.
God cares about my accomplishments and failures. I bring God glory in my blessings and my suffering when I surrender all of it to him.
Tomatoes actually aren't that bad if prepared or cooked correctly
You can walk away from relationships (especially friendships) without making the other person a villain.
Some people will be interested in being close to you based on how you inspire them and not necessarily for you.
There are so many people in this world who love you and care about you.
Having friends who intercede for you in prayer is way better than having friends to party with all the time. The crazy thing is that I have friends who can do both. Balance.
If you look good, then you will actually feel good.
Whoever says money can't buy happiness is lying. Maybe it's not the only thing, but being broke doesn't make me happy that's for sure.
Everyone is intelligent in their own way and that needs to be highlighted and celebrated more.
Just because someone may have it worse, doesn't mean that what you are experiencing doesn't deserve to be seen, heard, and validated.
People think therapy is for traumatic experiences or mental health episodes. Although therapy can be used for that it really is a way to organize thought patterns, enhance communication skills, and enhance your life.
Ministry can happen wherever you are. The Spirit of God is within you, so you can be a blessing to anyone. At the store, wherever you work.
One of the biggest tricks of the enemy is to try and make you think the grass is greener somewhere else. Do not compare your life to others. You only see the highlight reel. You have no idea what it cost them to get there. You aren’t graced for that. Run your race.
Life is better with a routine. Sometimes having a routine and structure is a luxury. Don’t beat yourself up about it.
Growth is not linear and it takes time. Don't be discouraged by where you are. It is all necessary. Sometimes change happens quickly, but most times things happens slowly.
Buy TSA Precheck or Global Entry. It’s worth it.
Buy the plane ticket. Book the trip. Travel. Every time. Any place. Let me know.
Stop GAF what people think. Please.
Even if you get yourself into a mess, God is a redeemer. You will be okay.
Forgive people for yourself. Resentment, bitterness, and unforgiveness makes people sick
You have to advocate for your health. No one else knows you better.
Don't let anyone treat you like you are the end of the bread loaf. You are the entire loaf.
God does not play about me. He doesn't play about you either.
You really do get finer with age. Or maybe you just accept yourself more. Either way 30 is going to be fun.
Do what is best for you. You have to know yourself.
The cost of success may not be a price that you are willing to pay. Count the cost of what it takes.
God really is GOOD (an anything other adjective our noun that you can think of). If you allow Him to, He can show you most on the really tough days.
If you made it this far I hope that some of these lessons resonated with you or reminded you how good things are for you too. In the midst of all the suffering, pain, and trauma in the world there is still so much good. There is so much good inside of you. I hope you take the time to reflect on some lessons of your own.
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